Sometimes you can’t make everyone happy. It’s ok to say no.
“We act like an old couple” “They doesn’t seem to love each other” Both these two phrases are an example of how we measure the life we see. We measure it through pre-packaged ideas. When you look back, 50 years ago, everything is different, but everything also stayed the same because even then they had […]
When you grow older some things you loved aren’t that interesting anymore. Maybe you loved going out and watch a movie every thursday, maybe you loved going to the disco. What changed, how? Priorities, perspective, and deepness changes. Priorities because what was important before (finding a girl? being drunk? whatever) now it’s less important. Perspective […]
Today I saw a sad couple while I was in a supermarket. It was strange, but it made me realize the beauty of what we have. We live, we connect, we die. I know it sound stupid but today is a great day to make someone smile. Making other peoples happier should be our rule.
Today was one of those days where I got flooded with request at work. Days like this are hard to love, mostly because you’re everywhere, but you’re nowhere near being effective. The more the mind change subject, the less you are able to go deep into problems. This is a common element in the web […]
One of the key lesson of my life is all about breathing. Whenever I found myself in the middle of trouble, or during a hard time, I try to breath. To take my time to answer. This was both inspired by Brene Brown and Tony Robbins, in very different area of my expertise.
These days I was quite stressed out. Everything was moving so fast I didn’t know what to do. The first thing I did was to ask for help. I felt powerless and I knew for sure that I could get some help from my friends, and I was right. But the overwhelming fear didn’t go […]
We all have the temptation to give up. To give up writing, to stop doing that diet, to not do our best. Giving up is always the easiest thing to do, that’s why our mind perceives it as a fast flawless solution. But precisely because it’s easy, it won’t be the best solution. The difference […]
Lately I’ve been fascinated by the idea of financial independence. Something I always tried to grasp but never got to achieve. One of the things you’ll see in reddit or forums about it, specifically if we are talking about “fast” financial independence, is that spending less is quite a good way to “earn” more money. […]
I am a quite organized guy but it’s hard to be organized because you often go too far and organize the useless. Why? The beauty of organize something, of being “in place” is all about control, taking control of what can happen, being able to predict the outcome. Organization is all about having a situation […]