No matter the day, the sun, or the sky, there will always be a good reason to angry.
Usually it’s about saddle information when we communicate.
Today I was angry because a developer from another company was being mad at me and was implying that it was our fault.
Well, truth is… he wasn’t implying that thing at all, and even if he did, he didn’t write it down.
The implying part was all made up by my mind.
It was my mind that, when I read the email, thought about the hidden pieces of information, he surely didn’t.
Is there an escape from this? It’s not easy, and it won’t be any better in the future but I think the main thing we can do is separate information and judgement.
We should start thinking to why a person is upset with us, we should think about the fact that it’s not about ourself, it’s about the things we do, and the things we do are not our hidden soul, they’re just our actions.
We can fail, we can threat people in the wrong way.
The most important thing is to just care, to threat people in a good way, love them, help them.
Getting angry is, as always, a waste of time.