When you have a child your life changes in way you didn’t expect.
First and foremost: It starts (your life) revolving around her/him.
She will be the starting point of any choice, of any destination.
It seems like breaking up habits, abandoning the good things, but in fact is adaptation. Things change, you change, it’s a change after all.
Life around a child is not easier, it shouldn’t be. It’s a step up in the game where you have to choose what you’re after. Your wellbeing, her wellbeing, or your family’s wellbeing.
It seems obvious when written, it’s not so obvious when you need to make it happen.