I was in a ryanair air flight yesterday and the stuart started making some jokes with one of the hostess..
There were 2 stuart in that moment and what happened is that they “settled”, by forcing her to do something while joking.
As men, I think we do this quite often. We use the herd to force decisions onto other people and, what’s even worse, we use jokes to feel less guilt.
I think that guilt should be a signal. If we are unable to sustain your actions, to live through them, then you’re trying to hide the guilt, and if you’re doing that, chances are you’re already commiting some kind of “crime”.
Be honest and live through each and every action, because you’ll take them together with you.