Let’s say you meet someone, you fall in love with them or you start having a high respect for them.

Then you discover they went under plastic surgery.
They changed their body.

Now, it seems perfectly fine nowadays to accept that people do plastic surgery, right? It’s normal.
We started shifting the way we think from “we are part of this world” to “we control the world”, or at least this became part of our expectation.

We somewhat expect the world to change based upon our will, instead of us changing based upon the world.

And you know what was the main skill that made humanity so powerful?
Adaptability.

PS: Bottom line question: if they weren’t able to accept themselves and felt the need to change their body, how can they accept you?