Come on, give me the chills

Thoughts about changing, life, and whatever comes to mind.

Category: Blog

  • the key to relations

    What is the key to relations? And more than anything, is there a reason why they go out of control?

    Seeing so many different kind of people interacting and how some of them fits perfectly together seems like magic sometime.

    I wonder if there’s more than it meets the eye, behind the guys that yells or the girls who’s frightened I wonder if there’s a long deep connection they didn’t knew about and that was part of their life without knowing.

    Life is sometime a maze of difficulty made so that you can live in your life comfortably

  • How to learn

    There are many tricks out there that will teach you how to learn, but while one may agree or not about their effectiveness one thing is sure: choose the one that fits you the most.
    Don’t only read the benefits but listen to your mind and your body to understand if it’s like the way you do all the things you do, if it goes with the flow.

    If it does, it’s time to start learning for real

  • the illusion of freedom

    Waiting for the chance to come, for our financial freedom to happen, for a good job proposal to hear is like preparing for disaster.

  • take it off

    To learn, to move forward sometimes you just have to take some weight off the result.

    After you start learning you accumulate things you might not need, as if your mind is a house you need to clean it up.

    Cleaning it up at first might seems like destroying something.
    In fact you start removing things you initially thought were important but now are just useless.

    It’s like saying goodbye, so you need to learn how to do it properly without getting emotional.

    Destroying part of your work is sometimes a good thing.

  • stick to the rules

    When you are the person making the rules why not follow them entirely?

    One thing I noticed about creating habits is that once you miss it once, you miss it forever.
    I remember a dear friend of mine saying: “If you start smoking once, than it’s always easier to allow yourself smoke again”.
    Or “If you lie once, than the second lie will always be easier”.

    He pictured a reality where once the rules (not smoking, not lying) were broken, it was easier to break them again.
    If you think about it for a second, it’s true.

    If we are the ones who create the rules, we should absolutely do our best to not find a justification for them and enjoy our shame moment.
    This way we won’t break the rules again.