The hardest thing to change is our inner narrative and the sad thing is that many self help courses are trying to teach us that we can change our life the way we want it.
It’s a lie.
Not because it’s not possible but because there are things that we can’t change.
But if you think that you can do anything and you discover that you can’t, what happens? There’s a crash between reality and a belief that should fall (but doesn’t).
The thing is that we tend to seek the error outside of ourselves while the error might be inside us. And we don’t catch this subtle difference then we might as well fail.