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Thoughts about changing, life, and whatever comes to mind.

Category: Blog

  • the beauty is in the eyes

    “You don’t dress like you used to”. These words might come out when talking about how you were dressing when you were single.

    Your wife might even think this. Dressing was a form of love, get laid, or even a form of trying to get some more attention. To her this was a way to get only her eyes. You did it only for her, and it was true.

    Now you do the small things that aren’t noticeable by the eyes, and it seems that “you don’t care anymore”, but in both cases it was all in the eyes, and in the attention to read the details.

  • how are you going to plan for bigger things?

    When you think about raising a child the first question that might come to your mind is: will I do better than my parents?

    It’s hard to say if that will happen. How will you measure it?

    We are guided by our ego, by the desire to be great but in fact when we think about children we project our ego onto our children. That is the limit.

    We should try to remove the constraints that left our bittersweet memories. We should not be angry for the stupid small things, children don’t care about things like money, after all. What they are after are the experiences, the extraordinary things in daily life.

    One thing I loved about this topic is a dad that takes out his son on stormy days, because a good day shouldn’t be defined by the weather, but by what you do.

  • the other side

    It’s easy to live your life as a continuous flow of events that belong to your life. Worrying about what happens to you, where to put your things, etc.

    It’s another story to entertwine those things, to live your life as a mix of other’s lives, worrying about what happens to you both, etc.

  • if it can’t be shared, it’s not worth it

    It’s painful to see so many big companies asking to share posts, as if sharing would make it spread.A big company has more money, can have a bigger plan, yet we see such amateurs sharing posts.An idea can spread only if worthwhile. An idea is like any other product: It works if it’s good and solves something. A problem, a desire, whatever. Your idea must be effective, interesting, thus leading to people sharing your post.But it’s not you that will make it popular. You’re not Tony Robbins, you don’t have this following. And even if you do you’ll think twice before sharing a post that’s not so good, because you’re losing the trust you earned.

  • the small things

    Sometimes is enough to say thank you, to avoid a fight, to enjoy the heat and the summer blu sky.