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Thoughts about changing, life, and whatever comes to mind.

  • getting to a conclusion

    I wonder if everyone has as many doubts as me when I get to any kind of conclusion.

    This is mostly derived from the fact that once you cristallize your tought into something that has a meaning, you give to it an enormous power, mostly because you want so deeply to be right that you would prefer dying than be proved wrong.

    So everytime I get to a conclusion I’m hesitant, a bit fearful because I don’t know how much of what I thought was correct.
    I investigate further, to understand, I doubt myself, that’s the only way you could find if you were correct or not.

    We can assume that many information we have is not correct.
    Memory is faulted by default, therefore we don’t really have a solid ground there.

    Also it’s common to refer to anecdotal information as if it were true, therefore improving a single thought might require some time before it is well established.

    One thing that helped me are questions.
    If you continue doing questions to dig deep you’ll eventually undestand if the information presented is solid or not.

    To learn, and adapt.

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  • if you have a cold, what will you do?

    If you encounter a roadblock what will you do?
    Will you stop or move forward?

    Today, since I feel a bit sick, I wondered what are the choices we see when we encounter a roadblock, like a cold, for example.
    The first 2 ones are easy: Stop, or ignore it.

    But are these the only ones? Obviously not.
    There are infinite possibilities you might one to consider, like going at a slow pace, taking it easy, stop to enjoy life, take your time, study the issue, learn how to solve it.

    These are just a few example of the things you can do while you find a roadblock.
    Life is never white or black, and so are life problems.
    You can always find a new way to handle it, to learn from it and so on.

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  • unprecedented fear

    When you’re stuck in between the possibility to make a big change, you will experience fear.

    Fear of failure, of not being able to produce results, fear to not accomplish the result.

    Pure simple striking fear.

    But what’s the alternative?
    The alternative might be to not live the way you want, to accept something that will rob your time and won’t give that time back.

    In his book “On the brevity of life”, Seneca teaches us why it’s important to live our days to the fullest, so why are we waiting?

    We are waiting because we fear, because we are created like this.
    It’s a way to protect our species, but not a way to save ourselves and live a fullfilled life.

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  • the key to relations

    What is the key to relations? And more than anything, is there a reason why they go out of control?

    Seeing so many different kind of people interacting and how some of them fits perfectly together seems like magic sometime.

    I wonder if there’s more than it meets the eye, behind the guys that yells or the girls who’s frightened I wonder if there’s a long deep connection they didn’t knew about and that was part of their life without knowing.

    Life is sometime a maze of difficulty made so that you can live in your life comfortably

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  • How to learn

    There are many tricks out there that will teach you how to learn, but while one may agree or not about their effectiveness one thing is sure: choose the one that fits you the most.
    Don’t only read the benefits but listen to your mind and your body to understand if it’s like the way you do all the things you do, if it goes with the flow.

    If it does, it’s time to start learning for real

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