getting to a conclusion

I wonder if everyone has as many doubts as me when I get to any kind of conclusion. This is mostly derived from the fact that once you cristallize your tought into something that has a meaning, you give to it an enormous power, mostly because you want so deeply to be right that you […]

unprecedented fear

When you’re stuck in between the possibility to make a big change, you will experience fear. Fear of failure, of not being able to produce results, fear to not accomplish the result. Pure simple striking fear. But what’s the alternative? The alternative might be to not live the way you want, to accept something that […]

the key to relations

What is the key to relations? And more than anything, is there a reason why they go out of control? Seeing so many different kind of people interacting and how some of them fits perfectly together seems like magic sometime. I wonder if there’s more than it meets the eye, behind the guys that yells […]

How to learn

There are many tricks out there that will teach you how to learn, but while one may agree or not about their effectiveness one thing is sure: choose the one that fits you the most. Don’t only read the benefits but listen to your mind and your body to understand if it’s like the way […]

take it off

To learn, to move forward sometimes you just have to take some weight off the result. After you start learning you accumulate things you might not need, as if your mind is a house you need to clean it up. Cleaning it up at first might seems like destroying something. In fact you start removing […]

stick to the rules

When you are the person making the rules why not follow them entirely? One thing I noticed about creating habits is that once you miss it once, you miss it forever. I remember a dear friend of mine saying: “If you start smoking once, than it’s always easier to allow yourself smoke again”. Or “If […]

the underestimation way out

Underestimation kills personality and adds barriers of communications. Underestimation as a prejudice, like “It’s the way you always do” Underestimating others is in some cases the results of us seeking an easy way out. A simple definition, a clear path. Too bad life isn’t that way.  

walk, and then walk again

Once I was in a beach, and with a friend of mine we wanted to get to a not so near hill that we were sightseeing. It was distant, I don’t know how many kilometers, but to me it was far. Like more than an hour. It was an hot summer day, the beach was […]

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