the smallest part of the whole

If you’re learning a new, complex, skill, you’ll fail a lot. This is normal.  But if you want to accomplish something and understand the behaviour and the mechanics behind your topic, you might want to reduce it to the small viable part that executes it. For example, say you want to learn how to tackle […]

give them a way out

Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a nice way to exit a conversation? Or to have a safe option in case everything goes wrong? I guess we all love this opportunity. The chance to simply get out of a trip you weren’t supposed to embark upon. When we confront with people, we tend to […]

ready to fail

Small or big change? What are you after? If you’re after a big change, you should prepare yourself. Not only technically, but emotionally, because you’ll fail. A lot. Think about learning to negotiate. Do you think you’ll get it right away? No. If you feel like learning it, then it’s because you’re not good at […]

the illusion

Imagine this: Group chat, created on facebook to share photos of my family to some distant relative. Starts easy on a christmas day, but soon began a place to share “PLEASE SHARE THIS, PLEASE SHARE THAT: HELP THIS CAT, HELP THIS DOG”. What social media got right was selling an illusion. The illusion to be […]

40 years of building block

Few days ago a dear friend of mine told me that she eventually resolved an issue with her husband. They didn’t get along one topic and this was causing them some issues. They’ve known each others for 7 years, so it was hard, but not impossible. Then she told me “Now the hard part will […]

easy questions, hard answers and how to spot a wrong question

You might be fooled into thinking that easy questions are the way to go. Few days ago I wrote to an acquaintance a question about gender discrimination at work. I wrote moved by an impulse, so the question was very emotional yet easy to grasp. He replied to me, with a kindness unique to his […]

aren’t you tired of compliments?

What’s the use of partying, the use of writing the things you can do on facebook? Is it personal marketing or is it something different? Unless you’re trying to brand yourself or place a product the only thing you’re probably accomplishing is receiving some “Oh, great!” from your friends. A positive reinforcement nonetheless. But, what’s […]

follow the steps

It might happen. You’ve always had a job that tells you what to do, step by step. One day a colleague comes to you and ask you your opinion on a new thing. A thing you never did before, a thing no one gave you the instructions.A thing that you “made” before, but only as […]

be uncomfortable

It’s only by choosing to do something different that you’ll end up in new different places. It’s by removing the bias, the prejudice that you go beyond your beliefs. Only by going into a place you didn’t really liked, only by doing something you didn’t really wished for. Only by doing those things _on your […]

open up your mind

It’s in the connections you make with people that you can learn something new. Only if you take the time to step down from your position, question yourself and accept a different point of view you can really make a change, make a difference. That’s the key. Today I learned from a friend a new […]

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