Embrace the unexpected

Always embrace the unexpected, the unknown. Not all things come to do harm, many are a path to a change you needed to make anyway. Embrace it, try to feel if this new road works for you, test it out before you refuse it. You might not know what’s behind the things you don’t like.

Some time alone

I never thought that going out for a walk to dispose of the trash would be so magic. But it was indeed. I look forward to it, I put my earphones on and do a small walk to the trash bins outside. 5 to 10 minutes of slow walking, usually at night, with the empty […]

Comparison hurts

We are a product of comparison. We make choices in our lives based on what other people have. We consider their well being and happiness as the result of a specific part, like work, or money, or the house. We see that our life is lacking that part and so we set on a journey […]

stolen ideas

How worth is a stolen idea? How much it values? I’d say it values almost nothing because a stolen idea is zero without execution. Yes, it might take time to accept, but an idea is just that: An idea. What gets the idea into the world is struggle, running, fatigue, effort. It’s sweat 100%. It’s […]

Letting things heal

Some things heals like wound in a body. They take time. Relationships, friendships, they do need time and space to grow, to change, to improve. Your effort won’t be repaid fast, it might as well be paid when it’s not the right time. But as you can guess we cannot control this. What we can […]

Untold stories

Everything has a story, one that’s visible in plain sight, one that’s hidden below the words, under the clear ground. It’s the reason why when we talk to people we omit our emotions, we don’t talk about them out loud, we don’t show them. We hide them because it’s easy, because we are not used […]

what you can’t do

Being able to do something is often a matter of perspective. There are many things that seem impossible, but some people can do it. Are they magician? No, they simply figured out how to do it. When we say “I can’t do it” beforehand we’re expressing our little hope in the outcome, the fact that […]

your job, your life

If you’re struggling with a career choice you can always think about what’s important for you. For some people it is required to have the best job in the world, others need just a job because their life is outside. It’s mostly a matter of priorities, but sometimes we are fooled by our expectations and […]

unexpected teachers

I have an old school friend. When we were kids nobody would trust him because he was the kind of boy who’d get into trouble. He was not that troublesome, he was just more active and more curious than others, which led him to do some things that were borderline, but he never crossed the […]

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